About Destin:

Destin Gerek is the original Erotic Rockstar!

He is a California State Certified Somatic Sexologist through the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, an Erotic Embodiment Coach, and an Erotic Performer and Artist.

An erotic educator since he was 18 years old, Destin has taken all that he's learned, studied, and explored, and integrated it fully into his being, such that he really walks his talk.

Destin works with individuals, couples, and groups and can help YOU take your connection to your own sexuality to the next level. He works with a coaching program that he developed called, "Unleash YOUR Inner Erotic Rockstar!"

Destin owns the production company, "Erotic Rockstar Productions" and is committed to creating top-notch erotic media that visually depicts sex at its highest expression of what it can be.

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What is an Erotic Rockstar?

Are You an Erotic Rockstar?

Hey guys, this one is written for you.
• An Erotic Rockstar has style. That doesn't necessarily mean MY style. My style is my style. Find your style. Really let yourself explore it. Every time you put clothes on, or even when you aren't wearing any, you are adorning a costume to present yourself to the world. Whether your costume presents you as a punk, a prep, a jock, a college student, a gutter punk, a business man, or an erotic rockstar, what you wear plays a key role in how others perceive you and interact with you, thus shaping your very world. Choose wisely. Who do you want to be? What world do you want to live in?
• An Erotic Rockstar loves women. This is not synonymous with An Erotic Rockstar loves to fuck women. While it's true that if you are a lover of women, chances are you love having sex with women; simply wanting to have sex with women does not at all indicate a love for women. What does it mean to love women? Let's start with the #1 most important thing that that means: R E S P E C T! This is a bare fucking minimum. If you do not respect women than you need to learn some, because the only women you will get are women who don't respect themselves. You take the time to try to understand women (and WHEW! does it take time!).
• An Erotic Rockstar has integrity. He is honest with himself and with others. If you go around lying to a dozen women at a time, telling each that she is "the one and only," you aren't being an Erotic Rockstar, you're being an asshole.
• An Erotic Rockstar leaves women better than he found them. The women he connects with part ways with him feeling really good about the connection however long or brief it lasted. As does he. They all feel as though their lives are better for having met you.
• An Erotic Rockstar explores his eroticism. Sex isn't simply about getting off, but about erotic exploration. Masturbation is not about simply getting off, but about erotic self-exploration.
• An Erotic Rockstar brings up desire in all genders, and people of all sexual orientation. He can play with his erotic energy with all people. Everyone has desire, and all erotic energy can be played with.
• An Erotic Rockstar seeks his perfect balance of masculine and feminine energies within himself. He is fully comfortable and confident in expressing all parts within himself, as he chooses to.
• An Erotic Rockstar seeks to become ever more embodied. He explores his body as a temple, as well as, a playground. He knows how to get out of his head and into fully feeling within his body.
• An Erotic Rockstar is fully confident of his erotic power. He plays with that power from a place of integrity and with compassion.