"Thank you Destin. You are a thoroughly empowering erotic coach; you've helped me connect and stay connected to my intention, my power, and my ability to feel like an erotic rockstar."
--S.Z.
"I wanted to honour you as a healer and your unique expression of your path.. what you are offering, and the way you are offering it, is very powerful... The Kali energy that came in for me during your presentation feels really strong and the way you teach the breathing really spoke to me.. the guided orgasmic breath was awesome and I started experiencing whole body orgasms... so THANKS for THAT!!!! I also want to honour you as a man of integrity, passion and truth... I feel blessed our paths crossed and that I got to really experience your essence..."
Love and gratitude,
--J.A.
"I want to take a minute to again appreciate the work you do - it really helps me and people like me break through all sorts of inhibitions - in sex yes AND much carry over to life in general. So, thank you Destin."
--S.R.
This program is for those individuals who want to invest in themselves and want the most complete, comprehensive solution to their challenges-and to create the erotic lives they truly desire and deserve. This program is for those men and women who want to truly Unleash their inner Erotic Rockstar™.
If you want to rapidly and predictably accelerate your erotic evolution--how you relate to your sexuality and to the very nature of sex itself--this is for you. Allow me to guide you to becoming the man or woman, and ultimately the lover that somewhere deep inside you know you can be -- and deserve to be.
Or perhaps simply participating in a group course isn't appealing to you, and you would much prefer the personalized attention that can only come from 1-on-1 coaching.
This is your opportunity, and your invitation. It is also your path.
Get coached by one of the most broadly educated minds in the fields of erotic development and coaching. Get personalized education and training by a man who has both the personal experience and in-depth education and training in the realm of erotic development.
Our professional relationship will provide you the gateway to becoming the top-notch lover that you want to be; and it will allow you to experience:
Men:
Greater Sexual Confidence
Full Ejaculatory Control
Full Body Orgasms
Non-Ejaculatory Energetic Orgasms
Male Multiple Orgasms
Deeper Levels of Intimacy
Connecting with and Communicating your Desires
Women:
Greater Sexual Confidence
Deeper connection to your own body
Connecting with your Desires and Fantasies
Becoming Orgasmic (if you are pre-orgasmic)
Learning to Experience multiple orgasms
Awakening your G-spot and female ejaculation
Full Body Orgasms
Cervical/Uterine Orgasms
Feeling sexy (again, or even for the first time)
Embracing your Erotic Power
Expand your Sexual Satisfaction
Some of the skills and capacities you can gain or acquire:
Tantric Intimacy Skills
The Ability to Connect with Anyone, Anywhere, Anytime
The Capacity to Ethically Engage in Open Relationships
Integration of Sexuality and Spirituality
Erotic Embodiment (Get out of your head and into your body)
Experience true ecstatic pleasure in each moment, rather than putting all of one's focus on a brief orgasm at the end of your sexual encounter that leaves you feeling drained.
That is the "What", but what about the How?
Below is a framework that you can expect from our relationship. Below is the basic outline of the path. Please note that it will be fleshed out by your particular desires and outcomes.
Phase 0
Outcome Clarification
What do you want to achieve or resolve in our time together?
How would you know when you had that? What would you be seeing feeling hearing, doing and/or experiencing?
What's been stopping you from having that in the past [or why don't you already have what you want in your erotic life?]
What do you think has been stopping you from having that? An emotional block? A limiting belief? Simply a lack of knowledge or skill? How the world "is" from your perspective?
Phase 1
Clearing out the Blocks
Limiting Beliefs [about yourself? About wo/men? About sex? About the world?]
Emotional Blocks and stops [Guilt, shame, fear, sadness]
Past Negative experiences [from past relationships or sexual experiences, parental imprints, or antiquated religious dogma]
Phase 2
Building a new relationship to your body
Physical awareness [Of muscles you may not have known you had]
Energetic awareness [Feeling the flow and learning to master the orgasmic waves]
Building and demonstrating muscular and energetic control
Putting those together to demonstrate greater control and choice with regards to ejaculation and orgasm with your partner
Phase 3
Expanding to Include the "Other"
Communicating with your lover
Awareness of their body
Presence of mind while being physically connected with them
Mastering their body through your own awareness and self-mastery
Each week we will first go over your experience with the previous week's materials. This is an opportunity to discuss both your challenges and your successes, allowing us to focus on any personalized fine-tuning that you may need.
Throughout the process I will present to you the next step in our journey together. We will give you in-depth personalized education and coaching on another specific area that will help you finally attain the life, relationships, and the physically and spiritually connected erotic life that you desire.
This is an opportunity for you to ask any and all questions that you may have. And finally, you will be given home-based practices to explore throughout the next week. These may be a mixture of practices for you to do on your own, as well as, practices to explore with a partner if you have one.
Your Next Step
If have read this far, it is clear that you have the courage that it takes to really step up and take charge of your sexual being once and for all. Contact us now for a complimentary exploratory session. You have nothing to lose, and everything to gain...
April 23, 2010
I am extremely fortunate and grateful to have been able to experience Destin Gerek's coaching work, and it has been life-changing. Thanks to his coaching, I have experienced changes in my sexuality, my mindset and my way of being that have been amazing. I'm experiencing a far deeper level of presence, peacefulness and confidence, in my sexual relationship and in my way of living, than I ever knew possible. Moreover, Destin's coaching has given me the tools to continue to transform my life in the ways I want going forward, now I'm truly guiding my life.
Destin's approach is about making changes from the inside-out, based on what works best for the individual client. His work is very personalized and non-judgmental. He acts as a guide, offering me tools and encouraging me along my individual path, instead of some rigid, cookie-cutter program. He's given me the tools to change how I'm being inside, and that has led to tremendous changes in my life "just happening." Change feels very natural and fun.
Pulling from a wide array of disciplines, Destin offers a very holistic approach. I've experienced growth in finding my purpose, subtle energy movement, sexual connection, Tantra practice, cultivating and deepening presence, enhancing my relationship connection with my wife, deepening my self-confidence, and self-expression.
I also enrolled in the Orgasmic Mastery course. Thanks to this program, I discovered non-ejaculatory orgasms and male multiple orgasms and expanded my sexuality in ways I couldn't imagine when I signed up for his course. Thank you, Destin - this work has blown open the doors of my life!
Q: Are you [Destin Gerek] available for coaching?
A: That depends on two factors ::: 1. My client load and whether I am currently accepting new clients or not, and 2. Whether I am certain, after speaking with you, that you will, in fact, achieve or exceed your desired outcomes through working together. However, it is always worth inquiring about. It is not a simple first-come first-served thing with me. Ever.
Q: What do you charge for your one-on-one services?
A: $1,500.00 per hour.
Just kidding. I do not discuss fees until we meet in the exploratory session and the client has a better understanding of the work and the value it would bring to their lives. it would simply be inappropriate. I also have a limited number of spots available for "coaching" so I carefully interview my prospective clients--and like to give a full and complimentary exploratory session. When I say full, I mean up to 90 minutes at no charge to be sure we are a fit for each other.
Q: What would that process look like?
A: We would have an initial chat on the phone to make sure there is good reason for us to work together--primarily my verification that I can help you achieve Your outcomes. If that seems to be the case, then we schedule a complimentary exploratory session. In that session we go into greater detail about what you want to achieve or resolve. I then talk about my approach and how it can assist you in your outcomes. At that point, we review an agreement and choose to work together--or choose not to.
Then we discuss fees--which are actually quite reasonable, or so I am told.
Q: Are you a licensed therapist?
A: No. I am not a licensed California State mental health professional and do not provide psychotherapy, counseling, or any other mental health service that would require a license, nor do I hold myself out to provide such services. I provide consulting and educational services that often result in substantial learning, transformation, and the acceleration of your Erotic Evolution.
Q: How is Comprehensive Erotic Evolution different than therapy?
A: Therapy is about diagnosis, classification, and often medicating. It is a problem and illness approach. Comprehensive Erotic Evolution is about resolving past events, educating your mind to right thinking, experiencing things in your body that you haven't experienced before, and then deepening your Self. It is a solution approach. An educational approach. An experiential approach.
Q: Do you offer programs that are less than 16 sessions?
No, I do not. If you think about it, 16 hours is very little time, regardless of how it is spread out, to shift years or decades of sexual patterns, habits and conditioning and replace them with new ways of being that powerfully shift how you experience your sexuality in your day-to-day life.
I believe that by taking our time, we can both really relax into the process, and that this is where the magic can really take place. Come to think of it, that's my approach to sex, too.
Q: Do you work over the phone or skype?
Yes. If you are geographically unavailable to meet in person, the entire program can be conducted over the phone or even with skype video. Quite a few of my clients work with me in this manner, and it can be quite effective.
Q: Do you accept insurance?
A: I do not accept insurance. I do not accept personal checks. I do accept: cash, cashier's checks, money orders, Paypal, Visa, Mastercard, and American Express. And again...all of this is addressed in the exploratory session
Q: Do you have a sliding scale or would you consider trade or barter for other services?
A: The short answer is: no. I simply do not engage with people who can not at least make the modest payments for these incredible services and products. I take credit cards. If you are that serious about transforming your life and your connection to your sexuality, you can find a way. There are many reasons for this. I wish I could help everyone. My heart goes out to them. That said, I do not do so just for my own self interest. After years of experimentation, I have found that in trade and barter situation, people simply do not relate to the work the same way-on both sides. Even with clients who refer dozens of people to me and make hundreds-if not thousands-of dollars through my referral program, I insist on exchanging checks and keeping it separate. We all get more out of the professional relationship-and the relationship is cleaner.
I have a large number of projects that I am working on, and I need to limit the number of clients that I take on for 1-on-1 work. My fees are one way in which I do so.
I ask for you to be willing to really invest into this area of your life. Your willingness to invest time, money, and energy makes all the difference in the results that you will see. Perhaps enrolling in this work will require you to reduce your spending on certain things in your life that are *not* serving you, in order to put those resources towards something that really will. If so, great. The changes that you will experience as a result of your commitment to this work will affect the rest of your life, they will alter the way that you relate to your sexuality forevermore. If there is an area of your life worth investing in, this is it.
